And we’re off!

January 3rd, 2012

With the New Year bringing us us very “un-New Year-like” weather (60 degrees tomorrow!), I’m compelled to bid a fond farewell to an amazing Christmas season for all of us in the Paul, O’Connell, and Jacyna (Penticton, B.C.) families.

The fam was together for the first time since Bill’s funeral (almost two years ago) this past week, and the holiday reunion was enormously gratifying and satisfying. In addition, we got all four boys back until Christmas Day, when Tyler had to fly to Maine to be with his fiancĂ©e, Molly. Spenser has been able to stay with us longer, but will leave tomorrow morning to return to Ann Arbor.

Matty begins a J-term with a lit class today(!), and then has one more semester of classes before his student teaching experience. And Jeffrey returned to work this morning at Wendt Communications after an exciting ski hiatus at Showdown and Neihart.

All of those times are so fleeting, so it’s time to replace them with big plans for the New Year. Our college semester starts on the 11th, Molly’s confirmation is on Easter Vigil (April 7th), the Legion baseball season starts soon after, Tyler graduates with his MBA from Michigan at the end of April, Matty graduates with his B.A. in Education in the middle of May, and Tyler and Molly will be married on July 7th in Bangor.

All of Ty’s brothers are attendants in the wedding, and will be flying out sometime around July 4th. We’ll be leaving at the end of June so that we can stay for a few days in northern Michigan with Chuck and Janet, who will also attend the wedding. After the nuptials, Carol will visit her friend Katherine in Maine for a few weeks while I fly back to get ready for the ‘A’ and ‘AA’ baseball tournaments in Great Falls and Whitefish.

Now, if only it would snow!

Careening toward Christmas

December 12th, 2011

I’ve often told my students that after Thanksgiving, the semester tilts up on its edge, and we begin rolling downhill at an ever-increasing speed.

Well, here are are! Matty, Spenser, and Tyler come home in eight days, and we’ll all take time to relax, re-associate ourselves with one another, and EAT!

And sing, and laugh, and make merry, like the song says.

Aaron Neville sings his delightfully corny Christmas songs, and we snatch a squibbet of our past, mix it into our present, and ponder and plan our future.

Not bad …

Simplifying Priorities

November 30th, 2011

This morning Tyler called me, and proclaimed that this was the time of year when I’d be getting regular morning phone calls from him. The reason: he’s walking to class.

The snow has hit hard in Michigan, and the roadways are slick. It’s time for our first real snowstorm of the year in Great Falls, as well. As our surroundings take on their white blankets, there is almost a hush in anticipation of the next weeks to come.

This time of year is also when we begin thinking about what we can control and what we can’t. And priorities begin to shrink a little as we approach the Christmas holidays.

We are so thankful to be in a warm house, to have a steady income, to have children who still adore us and one another. We are so blessed, as well, to have wonderful friends and relatives who give us inspiration and ground us to what is important.

As our priorities simplify, our appreciation grows. Perhaps that what makes Winter so much a Wonderland.